PRESSURE COOKER CONFIDENCE
The Me YOU Want to Be
From "I Can't Breathe" to
"I'm Regularly Doing Magnificent Things"
Build internal power in the moments where you typically feel powerless
Full course from $150 USD · 60-day money-back guarantee
I've spent my life walking into stressful rooms where I wanted to do magnificent things — but I found it hard to do normal things. Like breathe.
Maybe you've had that experience.
The presentation where your voice shakes. The conversation where you shrink instead of standing firm. The moment that mattered most, where you walked away knowing you left your best self behind.
This course is about closing that gap.
It's about building internal power so you can be the me YOU want to be when it matters most.
"The best professional development day I've had at Microsoft! The keynote was so successful, my boss wants to do it for the top executives in Seattle!"
— Henry W., Microsoft
What You'll Build
Practical Tools for High-Pressure Moments
Internal power is where you decide: Will you be bigger than you think you can be, or smaller than you really are? Over 13 video lessons, you'll learn techniques honed from decades of performing under pressure — blending acting training, teaching science, and real-world engagement strategies that build lasting confidence.
Roger's Rules
Personal guidelines you create, practice, and use in real moments. Not my rules for you — yours for yourself. Roger's Rules only matter when they become your rules.
The Neuroscience of Stress
How your brain works under pressure — and how to work with it instead of against it. The way you think about stress determines its impact on you.
Hands-On Exercises
Build power through doing, not just watching. Every lesson has something you practice. Inner power grows from repeatedly engaging with discomfort until it becomes fuel.
A Personal Action Plan
Walk away with tools you'll actually use — in the next meeting, the next presentation, the next moment that matters. Your rules. Your power. Your path forward.
Engagement as a Practice
It also works for the people you love most.
Engagement is a superpower. But like any superpower — it has to be built.
It started at a CEO Mastermind Group. At the first break, a business leader grabbed Roger and asked: "Do you teach this to kids?"
Then: "Can you teach this to MY kids?"
Roger worked with that business leader twice more — on his own projects, his own high-stakes rooms, his own storytelling. And then they did A Leg Up with his sons. Three two-hour classes. One hour of one-on-one coaching each. The same Pressure Cooker Confidence system — designed to give young people the internal power to walk into a room and be the me they want to be. Not the scared, shrunken version that shows up under pressure. The one they'd worked to create.
The tools worked. The sons landed jobs. Got into MBA programs. Won the rooms.
And then — years later — they came back.
Not because the tools had failed. Because life had gotten better. And when life gets better, we stop reaching for the ladder. We stop practicing the rules we built. We assume they'll be there when we need them — until the day we reach into our pockets and find them missing.
They came back because they understood something most people don't: engagement is a practice. The me you want to be is a practice. The tools don't maintain themselves — and the rules you stop using start to rust. Even Roger needs to come back around to these. Especially Roger.
Here's what they wrote. In their own words. Years apart.
Brendan L.
A Leg Up Workshop · then MBA Application Coaching
"We met about 3 years ago when you ran a workshop for me and my brothers. What I learned during those sessions was incredibly helpful and helped me get my first job out of university. I've used pretty much every one of 'Roger's Rules' since then!"
Follow-up · 3 years after A Leg Up
First Job
"I completed my recorded responses for Rotman and it was the best I've ever felt after completing one of these assessments. I just received my acceptance to Rotman's MBA program! I don't think I would've gotten in without you. The skills that I learned from you will definitely be useful in other parts of my life."
Virtual coaching — MBA interview skills · Oct 2025
MBA Accepted
Bryan L.
A Leg Up Workshop · then ongoing coaching
"I just got an internship! Your lessons and notes really helped a lot during the interview — they helped so much that they commented on my positive energy and personality that I brought to the interview! Thank you so much for teaching me."
A Leg Up coaching · Jul 2022
Internship
"Part of my process right before an interview that has helped me a lot is reading a chapter or two from your book. I always seem to read the right chapters that give me the Roger's Rules I need going in. I must be doing something right so far because they've invited me back for a fourth round!"
Book + coaching · Feb 2024
Four Rounds Deep
S.L.
Executive Coaching · Storytelling & Business Presentations
"I had my presentation to my CEO Forum Group and was able to have one of my fellow CEOs invest. I had one this week that was probably the best so far where I was able to weave stories about the most relevant slides which culminated in a positive decision. Thanks for your help and I look forward to reaching the next level of storytelling."
Executive coaching — storytelling for business · May 2023
CEO Forum Win
"Your work is extremely helpful and valuable as it has the power to change the trajectory of people's lives."
Keynote & coaching · Sep 2025
Trajectory Change
First job. Then the MBA. Then the CEO pitch. Then the win.
Every time it mattered — they came back.
That's engagement as a practice. The tools Roger teaches don't expire. They travel with you — into every room that matters, at every stage of your life.
If you're a parent looking for something that actually equips your child for the pressures they face — not motivational talk, but real tools that build real power — this is what that looks like.
Engagement is a superpower. Build yours.
The course
13 Lessons That Build Real Confidence
Module 1 — Foundation
L00 — Your Starting Line: How to Use This Course
Before the teaching begins, get set up for success. This isn't just another online course — it's a journey through stories, exercises, and reflections designed to unlock your inner power.
Roger's Rule: If you don't own stress, it owns you.
L01 — The Me YOU Want to Be
If you've ever hit a high-pressure moment and thought "I can't breathe," this is where it starts. You'll learn how to generate internal power on demand so you can perform when it matters most.
Roger's Rule: If you don't own stress, it owns you.
L02 — Black Hole, Black Magic
In a high-pressure moment, real but inconsequential stress owned me. That became the spark. We explore what unmanaged stress does — how it hijacks breath, focus, and creativity — and why failure moments can be the start of transformation.
Roger's Rule: Roger's Rules, converted to your rules, are a source of inner power.
L03 — The Door
The world is full of doorways leading to important moments in our lives. Wouldn't it be nice to walk through those doorways with confidence and power? This lesson explores why we tend to walk through as a shrunken version of ourselves — and how to reverse that.
Roger's Rule: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable.
Module 2 — Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable
L04 — Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable — Part 1
Discomfort can trap people and shut down their ability to be the Me They Want to Be. You'll learn how play, creative energy, and shifting how you think, act, and see a moment lets you overcome discomfort and unlock inner power.
Roger's Rule: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable.
L05 — Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable — Part 2
Discomfort keeps showing up in widening circles: auditions, work, leadership, relationships. Each moment of discomfort is a chance to stretch your thoughts, test your rules, and practice becoming. Inner power grows from repeatedly engaging with it.
Roger's Rule: Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable — mastery.
L06 — Get Comfortable Being Uncomfortable — Part 3
Inner power doesn't come from memorizing Roger's Rules. It comes when those rules help you change how you think, how you act, or how you see yourself. That's the moment you stop being owned by stress and start building magnificence.
Roger's Rule: Roger's Rules only matter when they become your rules.
L07 — What Does This Mean for You?
The spotlight turns fully on you. You'll reflect on your own discomfort, stress, and challenges — and begin converting Roger's Rules into your own rules through claiming, personalizing, and identity framing.
Roger's Rule: Fight to Be Positive.
Module 3 — Fight to Be Positive
L08 — Fight to Be Positive — Part 1
This isn't toxic positivity or pretending everything is fine. Positivity is under attack — by stress, negativity, and the world's challenges. Maintaining it requires effort, energy, and discipline. Positivity is a practice and a fight.
Roger's Rule: Fight to Be Positive.
L09 — Fight to Be Positive — Part 2
External triggers create a dual reality: outwardly performing, inwardly spiraling. Under stress, your impressions cannot be trusted. The fight to be positive means pushing back against that spiral and choosing responses that let the real YOU shine.
Roger's Rule: Fight to Be Positive.
L10 — Fight to Be Positive — Part 3: The Toolkit
Real-world strategies to actively fight to be positive. Each tool is paired with stories and activities. You'll experiment with practical strategies, find the ones that resonate, and build daily practices that make positivity a habit.
Roger's Rule: The way you think about stress determines its impact on you.
Module 4 — Stress Mastery & Your Rules
L11 — The Way You Think About Stress Determines Its Impact on You
Stress is not automatically harmful — its impact depends on how you think about it. If you see it as destructive, it damages health and performance. If you see it as energy and meaning, it fuels resilience and growth. Stress often means you care deeply.
Roger's Rule: If you don't own stress, it owns you. Build your own rules.
L12 — Conclusion: Becoming the Me YOU Want to Be
Transformation is not about memorizing rules — it's about converting them into your own rules, strategies, and manifestos. The goal isn't perfection, it's practice. Build your personal action plan and commit to the me YOU want to be.
Roger's Rule: If you don't own stress, it owns you. Build your own rules.
Student Reviews
What Students Say
Rated 4.6/5 by 53 verified students on LearnFormula
"This was the best webinar I've ever heard. Roger Haskett was AMAZING and it was so relatable. EXCELLENT!!"
— Elizabeth G.
"Very engaging and positive way to manage and harness stress for positive results!"
— Pam T.
"I love the style of his teaching, a lot of practical examples which make the understanding a lot easier to get through."
— Cheuk Him L.
"Super interesting and engaging. I will get more courses by him."
— Olivia F.
60-DAY GUARANTEE
The "Do the Work, See Results" Guarantee
Complete the course. Do the exercises. Apply Roger's Rules to your real life.
If you don't see a shift in how you show up in pressure moments — if you're not feeling bigger instead of smaller when it matters most — email us within 60 days for a full refund.
Why 60 days? Because transformation takes practice. We want you to actually DO the course, not just watch it. If you put in the work and it doesn't deliver, you shouldn't pay for it.
Founder, Engagement Unlimited
Roger has spent his entire career walking into high-pressure rooms where he needed to perform — and perform magnificently. This course is built from real experience, real failures, and real breakthroughs over 33 years. Not theory from someone who's never felt the pressure cooker.
Award-winning keynote speaker · Actor with 150+ TV/film credits (X-Files, Stargate, Supernatural) · Master's in Education · BFA in Acting
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Common Questions
Frequently Asked Questions
The video content is 3.5 hours total, spread across 13 lessons. Most people complete it in 2–3 weeks, but you have lifetime access so you can move at your own pace.
The lessons are designed to be digestible — 15–30 minutes each. And here's the truth: if you're "too busy" for this, you probably need it most. High-pressure lives require internal power tools.
No. This is practical technique built from acting training, teaching science, and 33 years of performing under pressure. You'll get exercises, frameworks, and tools — not just inspiration.
The book gives you the map. The course walks you through it — with guided exercises, a personal set of Roger's Rules you build and actually practice, and tools you apply in your real life. Understanding the framework and living it are two different things.
If you've ever walked into a high-stakes moment and felt smaller than you wanted to be — if stress makes you shrink instead of rise — this course is for you. It works for leaders, presenters, salespeople, educators, entrepreneurs, and anyone who needs to show up powerfully when it matters most. It also works for teenagers — the pressure young people face responds powerfully to this material.
Yes. 60-day money-back guarantee if you complete the course and don't see results.
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Build the internal power to be the me YOU want to be—especially in the moments that count.
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You're Ready to Be Bigger Than the Moment
Every time you walk into a pressure moment with calm strength instead of shallow breath, you're training your brain that you are capable of magnificent things. This course builds that strength.
The moments that matter most don't announce themselves. Build your power before they arrive.
The me YOU want to be is waiting.
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